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[Chinese and foreign toy network January 25] A puppy of the Mingming Castle toy has been missing for many days. Mom and Dad always thought that it was lost when they went to the car when they traveled. No one cares about such a small one. The dog’s whereabouts, after all, there are too many similar toys at home. Just a day ago, my mother’s good friend Li Ayi called and said that her little brother NN had stolen the obvious puppy and hid it in her clothes cabinet, so that it was only a long time before she was taken by Li Ayi. Find. 
While Auntie continued to apologize to Ming and her mother, she also said that she had criticized NN's brother for a pass, and said that if the younger brother steals things again, Li Aunt will hit the hand and close the black house. When my mother heard it, she said quickly, don't do this. This is the sensitive period of self-consciousness of the children. "Stealing" is just one of the manifestations. Li Aunt must not criticize, and can't swear to NN brother. The label, but should be directed to guide, help NN brother to successfully pass this special growth period. (Note: Mom’s word "stealing" is quoted)
[Self-consciousness sensitive period] Children's initial self-awareness is distinguished by the items owned by each person. That is to say, it is "this is my" to distinguish oneself from others, when an item belongs completely When they are themselves, they will truly realize the existence of "I".
["Stealing" Self-awareness] For NN's "stealing" things, Mom believes that it is a "self-centered" self-awareness. The three-year-old NN is still vague about the concept of "you and me". Everything is your own, and for the items you like, you must find a way to do it for yourself, because NN knows that if the idea of ​​"want a puppy" is raised, Lia must not agree. Therefore, I came up with the idea of ​​"stealing".
[Front guidance is more important] Li Ayi is very worried about NN "stealing" sex, what can I do in the future? Or, if everything is to be taken for yourself, NN becomes a selfish child, then how is it good? Mum comforts Auntie, these do not have to worry, as NN slowly grows up, these small "failures" will gradually disappear, Li Ayi only need to do a positive guidance work, no need to worry and worry.
[selfishness and self-disagreement] While Li Ayi is doing a positive guiding work for NN's brother, it is also necessary to understand the difference between selfishness and self. In the face of conflicts of interest, if NN chooses to satisfy others in the interests of others, then this is a selfish manifestation. Li Ayi must be strictly disciplined; and if NN is driven by his own will, he always likes to say "this is mine." Or the phenomenon of "stealing", then this is the normal manifestation of self-awareness, the beginning of NN's self-building and independence.
[Don't label it at random] When Li Aunt taught his brother NN, one of the things that was wrong was that he found a clear puppy toy in his home. He immediately labeled his son with a "stealing" tag, and then he continued to teach It "can't steal things." In fact, in exchange for an educational method, Li Ayi can tell NN completely, "This is a clear toy, you can't take it casually. If you want to borrow it, you must pass the clear consent and permission." Top the crime of "stealing things."
[To encourage the return of items] The principle of "having borrowing and returning, and borrowing is not difficult" must be understood by anyone. Then it is incumbent on this to return the stolen goods. However, for the NN to return the clear puppy, Li Aunt must ensure that: 1. Can not be returned in place of NN; 2. The behavior of returning a puppy must be NN voluntary, not forced. As long as this is the case, education and learning can be better achieved.
[Teach children to exchange toys] Mom suggested that for NN's favorite puppy, it is better for NN to take the initiative to lend it to play for a while; or, you can ask NN to bring a toy of your own to exchange with Ming. In the process of “borrowing†or “exchangeâ€, children can divide the boundaries between “your†and “my†more clearly; thus, not only two children are learning, but also self-consciousness has been further development of.
[Try to meet the small requirements] In order to meet the children's self-awareness, the mother also suggested that Li Ayi, as far as possible, to meet the small requirements of NN, NN "stealing" the behavior of the puppy, precisely because he thought that Li Aunt would not satisfy himself. This happens when the puppies take home to play the small requirements; then, if Ryan 姨 properly meets NN's small requirements, such "stealing" behavior may be well avoided.
My mother's last words: Out of respect for children, my mother personally believes that children in the sensitive period of self-awareness have the right to share and have the right to share their own items and toys. It is up to the children to decide. Mom and Dad must not Ethical standards are used to judge children's behaviors and decisions, not to force them to share. Forced sharing will bring a strong sense of insecurity to children.
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